Or a teenage girl who loved her brother enough to stop protecting his worst behavior.

I opened my lesson planner and turned to the following week’s assignment.

At the top of a blank page, I wrote a question for my students:

“Can a person change who they are without first accepting what they’ve done?”

I thought about the fighter I used to be, the teacher I had become, and the young man who now faced the consequences of his choices.

Then I picked up my pen and began planning the lesson.

For the first time in seven years, I no longer felt as though I were running from my past.

I had finally found a way to make peace with it.